Friday, December 11, 2015

Disgruntled queen declares war on Vital Voice


Former #boom contributor Michael Rockafellow, AKA "Butterscotch" has vowed to boycott any bar that distributes Vital Voice Magazine. Earlier this year Rockafellow expressed irritation about being overlooked for the publication's "Voice Your Choice" poll,
With #boom contributor J. Sanning weighing in.
and he's apparently still fuming over former Rehab owner Jim Weckmann's pre-roast exit interview where he named Rockafellow (among many others) as someone he would not miss in retirement.
"She likes to read folks for things that dont concern her and acts as if she is above everyone else around her... Butterscotch will do anything to attempt to make a name for himself. In my own words.....highly forgettable, mouthy, nosey, thinks his shit dont stink queen."
While others mentioned shrugged off Weckmann's parting thoughts, or planned to respond at the roast, the response from the furious Rockafellow  and his followers nearly forced Rehab to cancel the roast for security reasons.

Though I've never met Rockafellow, the fact I was on Vital Voice's roster seemed to be enough to draw his ire. He attempted to start a rumor that I made fun of people for being HIV positive, but removed the post after less than ten minutes after his own followers objected, knowing the accusation was demonstrably false.

I suspect his latest attack on Vital Voice (he's been heckling them online for some time) has nothing to do with the magazine, but instead involves his recent involvement with someone from Oklahoma City, where I have many readers and have hosted events. Maybe he was upset that his reputation preceded him.

Oklahoma City's famous Habana Inn


It's absurd for someone to enter the ring and then declare themselves bullied, which is why I've never made such a claim - despite the numerous attempts to get me pulled from rosters, or even being framed for a hostage crisis. It seems the critically important anti-bullying movement has been usurped by grown adults behaving badly, which is unfortunate.

Either own your position in the ring or get out of it. When people respond to your posts and actions it's not called bullying, it's called life.







Tuesday, December 1, 2015

BATTLING CANCER & A TROLL


Suzanne Jackson
Scrappy Suzanne Jackson has a lot on her plate. Owner of Bark Avenue, a pet grooming salon in a hardscrabble section of south St. Louis, she works to keep the doors open despite her location in a difficult neighborhood in order to put food on the table for her seven year old daughter - not to mention her five dogs, two cats, two lizards, parrot and a fish - all while going through chemotherapy for lung cancer.

As if all this isn't enough, she's also dealing with the St. Louis region's most noxious internet troll who is hellbent on destroying her.

It all began about a year ago when her client Stephen Martin vented about a friendship that soured with a man named Michael Javert. As an act of kindness Martin had sought to include the reclusive Javert in social activities, but before long Javert was tagging him in places he hadn't been, and when Javert learned of Martin's HIV status, he told him he had "the mark of Cain." When the friendship ended Javert sent letters to friends, employers, relatives, and landlords defaming Martin, and often called the police on Martin and his friends for numerous things including cyber bullying.

Martin recalled how it all began and offered some insight.

"Back in the day of gay.com he and I were enemies. He would antagonize folks about ridiculous things like wearing tank tops and having tattoos. He spoke of 'Mother' in a way reminiscent of Norman Bates and often 'dispatched reports' to the local 'constabulary.' He would do this from the comfort of his 'bed chamber.' He's very keen on the idea of law enforcement and may have actually been a security guard. He claims to have once been an officer in Florissant."

After being warned, Suzanne checked her own friends list and found Javert was a connection.

"He hadn't done anything to me at that point so I figured unfriending him might cause more problems, but he began posting rude things about the dogs I groomed, saying they looked malnourished. It was only getting worse so I unfreinded him.

Fast forward a year and Suzanne learned Javert was posting disparaging remarks about her and her business.



Because of the past experiences of her client and his friends, she began asking around - particularity in the LGBT community - and found he had trolled countless others including drag legend Dieta Pepsi.

"I am always a target of his. Anytime there's an article or news story about me he posts all kinds of vile and disgusting comments about me. He really is a mental case that needs professional help. I blocked him years ago." said Pepsi.

"Javert" wasn't his real name, but was just one of several he used, and it turns out he's an internet troll right out of central casting. He's unemployed, lives with his mother (reportedly in her basement, even!), and spends virtually all of his time trolling online.

The common wisdom is to not engage with a troll because they having nothing but time on their hands, but the little grooming business is all that she has, and she decided to attempt to reason with him. She contacted him on another one of his fake accounts.



Javert didn't respond directly, but, in typical troll fashion, he did post the following after Suzanne's email:



He then doubled down on his claims though this vageubook post. 



And just to be classy...





Now it was war. Knowing that she was only the latest victim of his trolling, Suzanne did her homework and uncovered his real identity and address, then sent the following:



Like a cockroach when the kitchen light flips on, Javert is scrambling. 
Suzanne's family react to her most recent diagnosis.

His latest posts are about finding out where I live, since I've asked him for comment, and about making police reports about everyone mentioning him.

This is Suzanne's second time facing down cancer, and she's determined to show him that she can defeat him and the cancer while saving her business and exposing him to the world as her gift to the community she loves.

The story is certainly not over, and I'll post updates as they arise.

Trolls hide in anonymity and live to harass and destroy, but, as Suzanne said, this time Javert picked on the wrong bitch.





***UPDATE with an additional quote from Stephen Martin***

"I just can't believe he is targeting her. Just because she is on my Facebook and tagged me or something. He recently paid $200 toward one of my best friend's dog's vet bill for a needed surgery. I was thankful, but not taking the bait. So since a good deed didn't get me to talk, he hopes this attack will get me to respond. He knows how cancer took my mother from me at 18. I almost wonder if that is why he chose Suzanne Jackson. I have PTSD induced paranoia, but with this guy it is totally possible. In any case, I am truly sorry this is going on."



***12/2/15 UPDATE***

Jarvis sent the following text to Stephen Martin:


Jarvis also made the following blog post to explain his side of the story, which I'm posting in its entirety: 

It seems as if a blog has been posted about me in attempt to smear me.

First I will say, I did have a friendship with a person named Stephen. I met him online, a social media chat site. I had some rounds with that person, and I was aware of his HIV status, and I did reference "The Mark of Cain" long before I ever knew him, and it was likely after something was said about me, as I don't bite first.

As time went on, Stephen befriended me and I thought was a true friend. We had very much in common though it had the opposite effect on our lives. It brought him out, and it pushed me away, and made me not trust people and not like people and I told him what it was that caused that and I thought he understood me. He invited me to a party and introduced me to one of his best friends. I was uncomfortable at the party and I didn't stay too late, because I have to take care of two people and a dog that had special needs. Stephen walked me to my car and was very nice to me. Nicer than anyone had ever been to me. I thought for sure he wouldn't like me anymore, and I didn't engage anymore and let him contact me.

It wasn't long, Stephen was inviting me to go places with him and do things. Often we went to the Six Flags, which I was the one that always drove them in my car. It wasn't long after that, this Kody person came along and it seemed to change the dynamic with me and Stephen but, I tried to work with it. Stephen was my only friend at that point, and I thought I could trust him with anything and did. I told him things about me my dog didn't even know about. Something was off with his friend though, and I could sense he didn't like me. And by the way, Kody goes by several different names, as well but out of respect for him, and his privacy, I won't stoop to their level. It's also very illegal when they use one name, to out their true identity. Especially if they've had a job in a certain field. Stephen even got his license by me letting him use my car, and I even made him a key and let him drive whenever he wanted to. And I don't know what that tagging him in places we never been was about. I checked in on 4 squares. Couldn't check in unless physically there, and the only way it would tag him is if he approved the tag, and he didn't remove the tag until he unfriended me.

I have expressed my concerns with Stephen about Kody, and he told me that we should just block each other on line and be done with it. Which I did.

Stephen moved into a mutual friends house, that I met through a social group Stephen invited me to. To my shock, Stephen called me and asked me if I would like to move in with them, to help defer their rent. I was tempted, but I was taking care of my parents, who are ill. My Dad is also a Vietnam Veteran. I also reminded him that Kody hated me, and I reminded him that Rusty my dog, seemed under the weather. I was also in the process of moving at that time.

When I moved into this house, it seems like I met different people. I was new to a social media site that I was always weary of before. The Facebook. I was unsure of how The Facebook worked, and these little messages would pop up and say "People you may know." I assumed that people were trying to get in touch with me, and were from the sinking ship called My Space. So I clicked on those things, thinking they were trying to get in touch with me. I accepted friends request from people I didn't really know.

I did come across this Suzanne Jackson Person and she apparently owned this business, Bark Avenue. I know that a lot of dogs appeared in my news feed, which I didn't understand why, or that it was how the Facebook worked that would post things in my news feed. And they did look like sad dogs to me. Sweet, gentle, sad puppies. And if I saw a thin dog, I might have mentioned they look malnourished, I don't really recall though. I didn't accuse her of it. I have no idea where that delusion came from.

I don't really know what happened with Stephen or why he quit talking to me. He was in the hospital, and he was talking to me, after he got out of the hospital, I rang him at home to see if he was okay. He said he was and thanked me for asking, that was the last thing I heard from him. And I suspected that Kody was the reason for that.

Later, another friend from My Space connected with me. I liked him, he seemed nice. I hadn't talked to that Suzanne Woman in a while and I also had a second Facebook account that was created when I had Friend Caster. So I used that instead of the Facebook. Well, I didn't go through deleting everything and everyone and juggle all of those things, I had forgotten all about the one account, until recently. My dog, Rusty got the cancer and a fortune was spent in medicines trying to save him, but he died in November, 2014, then I find those libel posts made about me right after he died ? Yeah, I was pissed. And stupid me thinking that anyone on the Internet would be sane or reasonable. Because I truly didn't remember that person, which was also why I confronted her. Now I am starting to remember why I disliked her.

I recently came across a post that Suzanne made over a year ago, I confronted her on it, because what she wrote was libel, and all hell broke loose with her.

I had no idea that she had the cancer and it didn't matter. The point was, she wrote something, about me, that was untrue, and I tried to iron it out with her. Instead of ironing it out, she became very belligerent and started spouting these profanity laden tirades at me and then started name calling. Totally irrational behavior. No mention of the cancer. So I posted to my friends what she said, and it upset one of my friends so badly, I deleted the post out of respect for him and his feelings. Well then I started getting a barrage of strange requests which seemed odd, because some people were deleting me, while other people were adding me, and all kinds of nonsense was going on. Then posts I had were being reported for containing nudity, and none of them did, and none of them were blocked nor removed. One of the posts wasn't even of a person, and two of the other post were people in a tank top. Imagine that... So much for having a thing about that. I don't post nudity, I don't even posts pictures without clothes on, and I don't even shower nude. So amusing when liars lie. You never know what they will come up with.

Well as time went on, there was this person "trolling me" I didn't even know what that was until I looked it up and thought "hmm, how hypocritical ?" Anyway, only then did I learn that Ms. Jackson had the cancer. But again, that didn't matter to me. Should I just suddenly start to have feelings of commiseration for someone that was so hateful, rude, and ignorant to me ? I mean sure, it is unfortunate that she had the cancer, although, I am sure she's like most of the other world, buying and  eating what she wants to support Monsanto poisoning people, and smoking to support the very industry that is making people sick, to help support the other industry, Chemo therapy companies ? But I don't go about bashing the hell out of people, then saying my dog has the cancer when they retaliate. I don't go about bashing people. I am an adult, and yet all those people look like adults and proclaim they are, but act like immature children.

While all that was going on, I was looking into these people and investigating them, since I can access things that are a lot more reliable than public records, and in some very special cases, sealed even. But that's not relevant really. I did also speak to an eye witness that reported to me that he saw her with his own eyes, abuse a dog that she was grooming. I don't know the specifics, but I did post that into status updates that was only visible to friends.

It wasn't long before it was coming to my attention that there were screenshots being fabricated and clothed together. Then someone I don't know, popped up and that person claimed it was my Mother. Well, that's getting dangerous and total insanity. And also, I had those posts visible to only certain people, and they were re-posted to others who then wove them from pure cloth. But I'm the troll. Talk about your delusions of grandeur. And my Michael Blumenthal account hadn't been used in years. And that's my real name. I am part Jewish, so technically what is being done is a hate crime, especially in the state of Missouri.

And I see there's an update from Stephen. No idea where that came from either. Stephen tells me not to talk to him, and says he never wants to hear from me again, then blocks me, then a few months later, I see him in "Friends you may know" with "Accept friend" button. Stephen told me when he liked me to not click that unless I know them, and while I did know him, I doubt he was sending me a request. He explained it that somehow, it thinks you might know someone and tries to connect you. It's all complicated. But the point is, he says those things, blocks me, then unblocks me. And he did make a comment on a post I made to a friend showing a certain bag of potato crisps that had screen names of two people on there. And he didn't say much, and I didn't expect him to say anything. I can accept that he's still immature and under the influence of his little bald friend that wants to be a woman, and uses several names, and has a gender identity crises, that's fine. But trying to say that I am gay, when I have told him I am not, more than once, and he constantly tries to "out" me when there is nothing to "out" me about. For the record, I am asexual, not that it's anyone's business.

But yeah, I still care about that person more than he will ever understand, and this is just one more betrayal that can have him in some serious criminal trouble. I will however explain to the police that he does have some issues unresolved, I won't post them here, out of respect for him, but they are on that Chris Andoe blog "Tales from the Emperor". Definitely a swelled head, and he got it part right. Those are tales. Whale of tales.

I don't even know who Chris Andoe is, but he has crossed the line, and while I did turn up a California address for him, for his sake he better be in Missouri or what he did becomes a federal infraction.

And for the record, I did not know Stephen's Mother had the cancer, and I never asked. He did tell me she passed when he was young, but I didn't know why. And I didn't know this Ms. Jackson had the cancer until just recently either. So that whole theory is ridiculous. But don't throw cancer in my face trying to create a commiserating story. I have lost everyone in my family due to the cancer, and I myself have been on the brink of the cancer and had a scare so intense, that I quit eating anything that had to do with Monsanto. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs. Nothing left but food and water. So I eat non GMO or totally organic, depending on how my body reacts to what, and I try to educate others so they don't go through the Crohn's like lavatorial shenanigans, or throw up blood and actually get probed and prodded by oncologists. I have lost EVERYONE in my family, including two dogs to the cancer, so don't think that your case is something special. I don't go around trying to get commiseration from others, and I have a conscious and compunction.

Well, Stephen, I won't ever understand you. I just swallow it as your recreational habit and your own mental illness that was posted about you. I hope you clean up one day, get some help, and grow up. I do care about you. Remember what I said to you at Murdoch Perk ? I won't forget what you said and have done for me.

And as for that Diet Pepsi, Leon Braxton, He is a thief. He stole a large sum of money from a social group I attended and he also embezzled money from the LGBT youth program. He also attacked a very dear trans-gendered friend of mine. I never spoke anything of him that was untrue, and when I did speak about him, It was to bring attention to the fact what he did. He stole from my friends, and from the group, he embezzled from a youth group, which makes it worse, and he attacked a trans-gendered person and constantly harassed her.



***UPDATE 12/2/15***

Meeshu Bono-Thompson has been familiar with Javert for many years, going back to gay.com, and posted a response to Javert's blog after calling the O'Fallon PD in an attempt verify or debunk Javert's claims of filing a complaint against Jackson.


















Monday, November 23, 2015

Facebook Suggests Penises You May Know (NSFW)

Facebook became a lot more interesting for my friend Adam Sampson, a grad student in Louisville, when  penises began popping up in the "People You May Know" window.

 

I'm wondering if Facebook will penalize people for posting screenshots of images pulled from Facebook. 

"I was just looking for a friend, not syphilis!" Sampson quipped.

Friday, November 20, 2015

Vital Voice: Inside & Out


Last month I left Vital Voice after a firestorm erupted over my exit interview with former Rehab co-owner Jim Weckmann, and now that I'm no longer with the magazine I'm free to share some opinions. For my readers outside of the area, the glossy Vital Voice Magazine is the dominant LGBT publication in the St. Louis and Kansas City markets, but it began as a community newspaper much like The Bay Area Reporter or The Gayly.

Old vs. New Media

There's a vocal contingent in St. Louis who bitterly resents publisher Darin Slyman and the magazine in general for scrapping the original format for the lifestyle magazine concept. My answer to that is if you wanted the old version you should have supported it. Publishing and distributing requires advertising dollars, and former publisher Pam Schneider went $150k into debt to keep the community paper going and people still complained incessantly and expected everything for free. She went on to heavily subsidize the now-defunct LGBT Center of St. Louis by allowing them to pay less rent than what they owed, but when she finally sold the building many made her out to be a heartless, greedy landlord.

Enraged & Entitled

On the inside I witnessed the odd mix of hostility and entitlement firsthand. A perfect example is when the head of a now-defunct theatre company sent us a scathing letter saying we should be ashamed of ourselves for not covering The Normal Heart.

But we had covered it numerous times, and had even interviewed him. He was so disgruntled, it seems, because we didn't provide even more free publicity. Publisher James Lesch, normally the one who strives to calm the waters in these situations, sent a firmly worded rebuttal to the theatre's entire board, culminating with a demand for an apology. No apology was received and the company wound up folding within months.

Year after year the magazine gives free coverage for community festivals, whether they do business with the company or not, but despite choosing another, non-LGBT publication as their official sponsor, one committee was furious with Slyman for not getting national exposure for their event through his partnership with The Advocate -  a perk he provides for festivals who choose VV as their official sponsor. As an apparent result, tickets we were to receive for the VIP tent were "unavailable" and our excited, fresh-faced interns were told they couldn't hand out sunglasses and magazines at the festival.

A Tale of Two Cities

"I don't know if I should even let you in" snarled a notoriously bitter queen working the door of a popular Grove nightclub upon seeing Slyman approach. She was one of several affiliated with a local St. Louis LGBT blog who miss no opportunity to heckle Slyman and his staff, mostly over social media. At least the queen at the door delivered her hostility directly, unlike the others in the group who hide behind keyboards where they call VV writers "horrible people" and sometimes send hate mail under pseudonyms.

Meanwhile, Kansas City is warm, hospitable and lucrative - and they've even tried to get the magazine to relocate their base of operations there.

In the Black

The old Vital Voice was on the verge of folding. Darin Slyman was willing to save it, but not willing to go bankrupt to do so, and Schneider's example proves that one can give until it's gone and there's little appreciation in the end. Even in a community-minded business, you have to take care of business, and yourself.

Speaking for Myself

I know a few former VV employees who weren't happy when they left, and I don't claim to speak for them. I'm only sharing my own thoughts and observations.

While on the roster I wasn't permitted to speak in detail of the inner workings of the company, and despite the constant heckling we were to stay above the fray. Darin is not one to complain or to show emotion, but the way he's been treated by some in St. Louis is ridiculous and horrible, and I didn't want to officially close the chapter on my time working with him without first saying my piece.

Vital Voice is a business like any other. It employs people that have to get paid, and trains interns who go on to successful careers. You're entitled not to like them, but you're not entitled to anything more.

For my part, I'm enjoying the pivot to politics via AMERICAblog.com, while reserving my local pieces for this blog where I no longer have to worry about skittish advertisers. I've lived all over and the biggest quirk I've found about St. Louis is the insistence that certain things aren't discussed. I think we're all better off speaking freely.




Sunday, November 15, 2015

Bad Blood in Belleville


Velvet Love, the reigning Queen of Metro East Pride, poured all she had into the Metro East Pride fundraiser at Club Escapade. She packed the venue with friends and family and bought $400 worth of shots for the audience. When she asked to say a few words MEPSI President Sarah Sowell said no, only the emcee could speak. Then, when the audience wanted an encore from Love, Sowell cut her off at the pass. "Nevermind. Lady Luscious has got it. We don't need you." 

With that Love removed her crown and handed it to Sowell. "Here. Take the crown. I don't want to be part of this anymore."   



To call Sarah Sowell polarizing would be an understatement. Past board members call her the biggest bully around, and point out the irony of her work with anti-bullying campaigns. 

Sowell stepped down as president during the 2012 Pride event where she took the stage and announced her retirement, but said she would remain the "executive board member," a position that doesn't exist in the bylaws. 

When her successor John Kreisel began his term he was met with Sowell's demands. "You need to include me on everything" she instructed. 

Kreisel and the board didn't acquiesce, and tensions continued to rise as the organization sought to grow the event beyond its roots as a block party for Club Escapade. Members sought to include other Metro East establishments including Bubby & Sissy's and Boxers, and to hold fundraisers, which turned out to quite lucrative, in St. Louis. 

Twice during Kreisel's term Sowell attempted to get back on the board. After the board unanimously rejected her first attempt she tried again at a meeting held in the dining room of Kriesel's classic Craftsman bungalow. Even though her own nephew was on the board, the vote was once again unanimous in opposing her return. The livid Sowell cried and things became personal when she confronted her nephew about his vote. 

The elegant John Kriesel was cautious about revisiting his time with the organization, but offered the following: 

"I really enjoyed my time there, mostly, but the actions of certain individuals and the need to be so closely associated with a for-profit business made me uncomfortable."

Tensions only escalated after Allen Irby took the helm, when Sowell and Club Escapade owners, livid at the organization's outreach efforts to other businesses, began a campaign of posting negative comments about the leadership. 

When the mayor offered to allow the festival to expand from three to five blocks, and move the stage to the fountain, which is the crown jewel of the town, Irby jumped on the opportunity. 



"[Escapade owner] Harold called me from his lake house, drunk as a skunk, yelling about us moving 'his' stage." Irby recalled, going on to equate his rant about the stage to Gollum's rants about the precious. 

"It's not his stage. He didn't pay for it!"

Former board member Bob Baker didn't mince words when it came to Sowell. 


"As a member of MEPSI's board of directors, I was able to watch Sarah Sowell quietly cause turmoil within the board, and one by one, members of the board left amidst the drama. This was her well calculated plan so that she could replace the board with her own followers. Those that held her up on a pedestal and worshipped the ground she walked on. For Sarah, it's all about power and control. Now because of her, MEPSI will never be the same until once again she is removed from the board, and never allowed to participate again. Then and only then can MEPSI regain the respect that this organization once had within the LGBT community."

Adam Kaemmerer/ Olivia DeMornay
The nightmare still isn't over for former president Adam Kaemmerer, who only months ago had to yet again address Sowell's accusations of forgery and embezzlement when they were made an issue for his mother at the local school district where she worked. 

Kaemmerer served as a volunteer for five years and received a community service award from the organization before being asked to join the board. After Irby left Kaemmerer was asked to take the reigns, but from day one Sowell was the elephant in the room. 

"We [the board] met with the owners of Escapade, trying to mend fences, and they said 'Before we go any farther, Sarah Sowell must be involved as an adviser." 

As a show of good faith the board agreed, and soon all meetings were being held at Sowell's home. 

"She put on a great mask" Kaemmerer begins. "She was always saying how much she liked me and how I was such an asset to the organization." 

The board decided to bring Sowell back as a voting member, and soon she began to question the use of petty cash as well as other ways in which the board handled money and banking. 

One Sunday in February Sowell called an emergency meeting during a time when everyone knew Kaemmerer was at work. Former VP Jason Lewis recalled Sowell making the case that Kaemmerer had to leave immediately. 

"I wasn't agreeing with what they were saying" Lewis begins. "She was saying he committed fraud and was forging checks, and I knew that wasn't true." 

Like the others, Lewis described Sowell as a bully, but said he wasn't having it. 

"I was the only drag queen on the board and I was going to speak my mind!"

In the end, though, one by one the board voted to remove Kaemmerer and replace him with Sowell. Lewis was the only dissenter with a "Fuck no!" vote that sealed his fate as well. 

Despite all the years of service, the owners of Escapade immediately blocked Kaemmerer on Facebook, effectively slamming the door in his face, and he still struggles with the rumors about his character. 

When the latest rumor hit his mother at work, Kaemmerer left a message on Sowell's cell phone threatening legal action if this continued. 

"I didn't do anything wrong, and haven't had so much as a police officer visit my house."

Sarah Sowell did not return my request for an interview. When I asked Kaemmerer how she'd likely respond to the airing of these accusations he said, "She's always the victim, despite the fact she's the source of all the turmoil. Publicly she's going to want to be rocked to sleep and comforted. Privately she's going to plot revenge." 

Despite everything, Kaemmerer would like to see the organization succeed, and would go back, on one condition: "They'd have to clear the whole board and start over." 

Any such resolution seems highly unlikely. There were discussions in the past about alternating the event between Belleville and Alton, but Sowell and Escapade wouldn't even accept the stage being moved around the corner, and moved it back to the bar at the first opportunity. 

"Despite the lofty name, Metro East Pride is really nothing more than a block party for Escapades" Allen Irby lamented. 

***UPDATE***

A Facebook group calling for a boycott of MEPSI and Club Escapade was created. 


Saturday, October 17, 2015

Not Ready to Make Nice


It's not Rehab's first time at the rodeo, and on Jim Weckmann's final night many jokes were made about his well-known inability to keep his thoughts to himself. But if you thought the drama of the past week--which included a lot of caterwauling, pearl clutching, emotional drunk posts, and even threats of violence over his explosive exit interview-- would lead Victoria Rose and Akasha Royale to timidly walk on eggshells, you'd be mistaken. Last night was a show by and for grown folks with thick skin.
Photo courtesy of Anthony Oliver 

Akasha set the tone with her opening monologue, which included a not so veiled swipe at the chief instigator of the past week's angry mob, and followed that up by having some fun at my expense.

"We have an author with us tonight...and I hear he doesn't write for Vital Voice anymore."

Just John owner John Oberkramer --who'd posted his disapproval of the interview one evening and replaced it with a status reaffirming his fondness for Weckmann the following morning-- was in the house and in good spirits.

"Just John is our sister bar" Rose said. "Whenever Jim would fire Kyle, which he did a dozen or so times, I'd tell him to just go down to Just John for a while until he cools off. He won't find you there!"

The legendary Kitty Litter was a big hit, but the highlight of the evening was when an unbowed Victoria Rose brought down the house with "Not Ready to Make Nice," which she dedicated to Weckmann.

Many notables were in attendance, including St. Louis Post-Dispatch music critic Kevin C. Johnson.

During the height of the controversy there was talk of canceling the event altogether --which left me scrambling to try to mitigate some of the blowback-- but by midweek it seemed cooler heads in the community had prevailed. Angry, hyperbolic comments began to be outnumbered by thoughtful opinions like that of Mark Moore, owner of Takemorepics Photography:

"Everyone and I mean everyone in that article is damn near a gay household name now. Good, bad or indifferent, it's art. Art is meant to evoke feelings and discussions, If it doesn't, it's not a good piece."

There were also humorous rebuttals to angry commenters, including this response by Nicholas Edward:

"Oh honey no. It looks like what you need is a hug and a community college pamphlet."

Both the turbulent week and Jim's eventful years at Rehab drew to a close last night, and did so on Weckmann's terms.









Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Florida Court Turns Tables on Dustin Mitchell


Andoetainment's own (yeah, I claim him) Dustin Mitchell made headlines last year when a St. Louis court granted him an injunction against Boca Raton-based Michael Hansen, CEO of a multilevel marketing company called DubLi. 

Mitchell claimed to have been the former vice president of North American Sales Development of DubLi (during a year in which he also worked at at St. Louis TGIFriday's and claimed to run for political office in Arizona), and argued in court that Hanson owed him $12,000 and had threatened him, causing him to fear for his safety. Inexplicably, the St. Louis court ordered Hansen to remain at least 1,500 meters from Mitchell (not difficult, since Hansen lived 1,173 miles away) and ordered Hansen to not make any contact by phone, internet or e-mail. Mitchell also requested the reimbursement of legal and medical expenses. 

DubLi's Eric Nelson responded: 

“Mr. Mitchell claims to have served as a senior member of DubLi’s leadership team. He has filed a restraining order against DubLi CEO Michael Hansen, claiming that Mr. Hansen is ‘stalking’ him. He has, on several occasions, attempted to contact several DubLi employees with stories about our position as a public company. He has claimed that the company owes him $12,000. These claims are utterly and demonstrably false.

“Contrary to his public posts, Mr. Mitchell has never been a member of DubLi’s corporate staff, much less a member of its management team. Mr. Hansen has never met Mr. Mitchell and has never made any threats against him. While Mr. Mitchell did register to join DubLi, he never made his required payment and has yet to provide documentation or verification of such payment. His online representation of holding a DubLi corporate title as well as his hosting of a variety of social media pages using the company’s corporate names are all in violation of DubLi’s terms and conditions, and constitute a misuse of our corporate trademarks.

“DubLi will not tolerate Mr. Mitchell’s false statements and attempts at extortion, and intends to vigorously pursue all available legal avenues in order to restrain Mr. Mitchell from further damaging our company and credibility.

“There is no shortage of publicly available information about Mr. Mitchell’s behavior and activity concerning other companies. We are taking legal action to protect ourselves and the network marketing industry at large from this individual.”

Mitchell's response to their claims he'd never worked for DubLi and had never even met Hansen: "They're just trying to get leverage."

This summer a Florida court ruled in favor of Hansen, finding that the company had no affiliation with Mitchell, didn't defraud him, and owed him nothing. The court also ordered him to remove any posts to the contrary. 

DubLi and the court may not have been amused, but I always enjoy Mitchell's antics.